"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Spinning plates

jimjam

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Gentlemen,

What's the most plates you've spun at one time? How do you keep track of them?

I had two going and i found myself confusing what i told one with what i told the other, conversations blending together, etc. I can see this erupting into a grand fiasco.

Any advice is appreciated.

Thanks
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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mangotot

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Most I have ever spun at any time is 1. I am to change that to 1 per day starting this week.
 

Wraithe

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I haven't spun too many plates for any length of time, but one idea that comes to my mind is having a journal or using your phone to make a few notes after each date. Take some time to categorize your notes under each girl and review your notes before each date in the future. I plan on doing something along these lines when I get there.
 

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I think since i am just starting the most is 3 and than 2 fell off and i stoped to get away from Oneits
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Zarky

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Depending on definition of "plate," I'd have to say right now. I currently have 3 going and have since almost a year ago.

Unfortunately I'm getting kind of sick of it. I spend 4-5 nights a week with these chicks and the other 2-3 I'm working late. I really don't have any nights to myself.

This year I've not had sex with any new girls whereas I banged a dozen new ones last year. It's largely because chicks want to go out on the weekends and my weekends are always full. I never have a free Friday, Saturday or Sunday. Never.

I'm not sure what to do. I really like my MLTRs but damn I wish one of them lived far away and was a twice-a-month girl. I think two nearby girls and one far-away girl is best for me. Three girls nearby just becomes a chore because I like new puzzy every once in awhile and I haven't had any in nearly a year.

I take that back, I smoked meth with an ex a few weeks ago and banged her, but we last banged in 2012 so I wouldn't consider that "new."

Having said all that, I've been doing MLTRs continually since 2003 (with a short break in 2005 where I dated only one chick and realized it wasn't for me) and I'm completely comfortable with them. I can't imagine what it would be like to only date one chick.
 
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