"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Spinning plates with women your not attracted to

Darrenez

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Hi guys,

In your opinion..Is it worth meeting up with women your not super attracted to?..Just with the option of keeping them around Incase it leads to sex or just to hang out with?

Asking as I'm meant to meet someone this afternoon I'm not overly fussed with ..Not sure whether to or not.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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TheProspect

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Hi guys,

In your opinion..Is it worth meeting up with women your not super attracted to?..Just with the option of keeping them around Incase it leads to sex or just to hang out with?

Asking as I'm meant to meet someone this afternoon I'm not overly fussed with ..Not sure whether to or not.
Only you can decide if it's worth it.

Your opinion of them might change after you meet them, and the fact that you're not obsessing over them right off the bat is a good thing. Better to appear comfortable on a date than nervous or desperate.

Use it to practice interacting with women, if you could use some. Or just do something else with your time that you find more valuable.
 

Darrenez

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That's the thing, i met her for half an hour last week. It went okay but I've got a lot going on at the moment so i didn't really check her out enough haha. Obviously the initial spark wasn't there i don't think.
 

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That's the thing, i met her for half an hour last week. It went okay but I've got a lot going on at the moment so i didn't really check her out enough haha. Obviously the initial spark wasn't there i don't think.
So you didn't really check her out, even though you met up with her? You were there but, you weren't there...

Why do you think you are not "super attracted to her"? Are you punching below your weight? If that's the case, why are you
punching below your weight?

If you are genuinely too busy and she's a dog then it may be best to cut it loose. You're time and energy are valuable. However, it's best
to reflect and be sure that this is not a "weasel" running around your mind. A weasel making excuses for whatever reason, you know what I mean?

I mean if you've got the time and you could do with "sharpening the saw", then go and practice your game on her.....

What's your sexual strategy? What's your overall goal: girlfriend game, plate spinning. etc
 

Darrenez

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So you didn't really check her out, even though you met up with her? You were there but, you weren't there...

Why do you think you are not "super attracted to her"? Are you punching below your weight? If that's the case, why are you
punching below your weight?

If you are genuinely too busy and she's a dog then it may be best to cut it loose. You're time and energy are valuable. However, it's best
to reflect and be sure that this is not a "weasel" running around your mind. A weasel making excuses for whatever reason, you know what I mean?

I mean if you've got the time and you could do with "sharpening the saw", then go and practice your game on her.....

What's your sexual strategy? What's your overall goal: girlfriend game, plate spinning. etc

It was my dad's funeral the next day hence why i didn't really pay much attention. I put off seeing her yesterday and not overly bothered seeing her today.

I guess to have her as an option for a **** etc..She's not a dog but not my usual type either. However haven't got many chicks on the go atm so this could be an option.


If I see her again I'd like it to be brief and then theres the case of paying for her haha..Can't harm to see her again i guess.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Konada

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Good if you need experience about how women behave with varying interest levels, other than that I don't see much point. I'd rather masturbate than bang them
 

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I know this is bad but I did infact cancel on her, when I saw her crossing the road infront of me and she def wasn't my type. I turned the car around and came back home..Hey, better than wasting hers and my time I think!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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