"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Spinning plates with women your not attracted to

Darrenez

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Hi guys,

In your opinion..Is it worth meeting up with women your not super attracted to?..Just with the option of keeping them around Incase it leads to sex or just to hang out with?

Asking as I'm meant to meet someone this afternoon I'm not overly fussed with ..Not sure whether to or not.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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TheProspect

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Hi guys,

In your opinion..Is it worth meeting up with women your not super attracted to?..Just with the option of keeping them around Incase it leads to sex or just to hang out with?

Asking as I'm meant to meet someone this afternoon I'm not overly fussed with ..Not sure whether to or not.
Only you can decide if it's worth it.

Your opinion of them might change after you meet them, and the fact that you're not obsessing over them right off the bat is a good thing. Better to appear comfortable on a date than nervous or desperate.

Use it to practice interacting with women, if you could use some. Or just do something else with your time that you find more valuable.
 

Darrenez

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That's the thing, i met her for half an hour last week. It went okay but I've got a lot going on at the moment so i didn't really check her out enough haha. Obviously the initial spark wasn't there i don't think.
 

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That's the thing, i met her for half an hour last week. It went okay but I've got a lot going on at the moment so i didn't really check her out enough haha. Obviously the initial spark wasn't there i don't think.
So you didn't really check her out, even though you met up with her? You were there but, you weren't there...

Why do you think you are not "super attracted to her"? Are you punching below your weight? If that's the case, why are you
punching below your weight?

If you are genuinely too busy and she's a dog then it may be best to cut it loose. You're time and energy are valuable. However, it's best
to reflect and be sure that this is not a "weasel" running around your mind. A weasel making excuses for whatever reason, you know what I mean?

I mean if you've got the time and you could do with "sharpening the saw", then go and practice your game on her.....

What's your sexual strategy? What's your overall goal: girlfriend game, plate spinning. etc
 

Darrenez

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So you didn't really check her out, even though you met up with her? You were there but, you weren't there...

Why do you think you are not "super attracted to her"? Are you punching below your weight? If that's the case, why are you
punching below your weight?

If you are genuinely too busy and she's a dog then it may be best to cut it loose. You're time and energy are valuable. However, it's best
to reflect and be sure that this is not a "weasel" running around your mind. A weasel making excuses for whatever reason, you know what I mean?

I mean if you've got the time and you could do with "sharpening the saw", then go and practice your game on her.....

What's your sexual strategy? What's your overall goal: girlfriend game, plate spinning. etc

It was my dad's funeral the next day hence why i didn't really pay much attention. I put off seeing her yesterday and not overly bothered seeing her today.

I guess to have her as an option for a **** etc..She's not a dog but not my usual type either. However haven't got many chicks on the go atm so this could be an option.


If I see her again I'd like it to be brief and then theres the case of paying for her haha..Can't harm to see her again i guess.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Konada

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Good if you need experience about how women behave with varying interest levels, other than that I don't see much point. I'd rather masturbate than bang them
 

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I know this is bad but I did infact cancel on her, when I saw her crossing the road infront of me and she def wasn't my type. I turned the car around and came back home..Hey, better than wasting hers and my time I think!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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