"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Spinning plates with women your not attracted to

Darrenez

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Hi guys,

In your opinion..Is it worth meeting up with women your not super attracted to?..Just with the option of keeping them around Incase it leads to sex or just to hang out with?

Asking as I'm meant to meet someone this afternoon I'm not overly fussed with ..Not sure whether to or not.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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TheProspect

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Hi guys,

In your opinion..Is it worth meeting up with women your not super attracted to?..Just with the option of keeping them around Incase it leads to sex or just to hang out with?

Asking as I'm meant to meet someone this afternoon I'm not overly fussed with ..Not sure whether to or not.
Only you can decide if it's worth it.

Your opinion of them might change after you meet them, and the fact that you're not obsessing over them right off the bat is a good thing. Better to appear comfortable on a date than nervous or desperate.

Use it to practice interacting with women, if you could use some. Or just do something else with your time that you find more valuable.
 

Darrenez

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That's the thing, i met her for half an hour last week. It went okay but I've got a lot going on at the moment so i didn't really check her out enough haha. Obviously the initial spark wasn't there i don't think.
 

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That's the thing, i met her for half an hour last week. It went okay but I've got a lot going on at the moment so i didn't really check her out enough haha. Obviously the initial spark wasn't there i don't think.
So you didn't really check her out, even though you met up with her? You were there but, you weren't there...

Why do you think you are not "super attracted to her"? Are you punching below your weight? If that's the case, why are you
punching below your weight?

If you are genuinely too busy and she's a dog then it may be best to cut it loose. You're time and energy are valuable. However, it's best
to reflect and be sure that this is not a "weasel" running around your mind. A weasel making excuses for whatever reason, you know what I mean?

I mean if you've got the time and you could do with "sharpening the saw", then go and practice your game on her.....

What's your sexual strategy? What's your overall goal: girlfriend game, plate spinning. etc
 

Darrenez

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So you didn't really check her out, even though you met up with her? You were there but, you weren't there...

Why do you think you are not "super attracted to her"? Are you punching below your weight? If that's the case, why are you
punching below your weight?

If you are genuinely too busy and she's a dog then it may be best to cut it loose. You're time and energy are valuable. However, it's best
to reflect and be sure that this is not a "weasel" running around your mind. A weasel making excuses for whatever reason, you know what I mean?

I mean if you've got the time and you could do with "sharpening the saw", then go and practice your game on her.....

What's your sexual strategy? What's your overall goal: girlfriend game, plate spinning. etc

It was my dad's funeral the next day hence why i didn't really pay much attention. I put off seeing her yesterday and not overly bothered seeing her today.

I guess to have her as an option for a **** etc..She's not a dog but not my usual type either. However haven't got many chicks on the go atm so this could be an option.


If I see her again I'd like it to be brief and then theres the case of paying for her haha..Can't harm to see her again i guess.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Konada

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Good if you need experience about how women behave with varying interest levels, other than that I don't see much point. I'd rather masturbate than bang them
 

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I know this is bad but I did infact cancel on her, when I saw her crossing the road infront of me and she def wasn't my type. I turned the car around and came back home..Hey, better than wasting hers and my time I think!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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