Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Spinning plates while in a LTR.. Yay or Nay?

Should you spin plates in a LTR?

  • Yes

    Votes: 7 46.7%
  • No

    Votes: 8 53.3%

  • Total voters
    15
  • Poll closed .

ghostridur

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incognito42 said:
Just because your sleazeball friends have skanky girlfriends who allow themto cheat, doesn't make it morally acceptable. Then again I only live my life by my own moral standards, so if theyr happy with that life more power to them. But citing an example of 2 of your friends doesn't make it a universal truth

I have a sleazeball friend that's been dating a girl for 7 years and he does as h pleases and she does as he says. This guy once put his gf in timeout an made her sit in the corner over the phone because she said something inappropriate at a party and he found out about it. He cheats on her, and she knows it. You know what thT means? She has mental issues, and she's a weak codependent person

Having chicks at your disposal that you keep at arms length that you flirt with and keep a vibe with wheee u both know u could fvck at anytime, whether you act on it or not, is cheating. Are you ok with your LTR keeping guys around her in the form of special friends thT she could and is planning to fvck olif things go south?

It's not about being afraid of women, it's about not being a d-bag and having respect for and being committed to the person you CHOOSE to be in a LTR with. I don't not cheat because I fear my gf, but because I'm hot a d-bag

I kno you'll prolly attack me now because, well, I jut call you a morally bankrupt d bag. But I actually enjoy reading your posts and your perspective and respect what you have to say here but just disagree with this
dumba$$ mother****a playher****. no brains. reps to you. i aint a guy who drools over woman but i dont disrespect them
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ghostridur said:
pathetic and laughable. no point in having an ltr then if losing it doesnt matter. finding another woman for emotional bonding is tuff work all over again because the woman has to be perfect in my opinion to emotionally bond, hard to find. the thought of getting caught is even worse , as i gotta deal with the emotional consequences too if i was 'bonded to her emotionally'. when i lose her, im obv. gonna feel like sh!t since she was an ltr
You sound like a Dr. Phil, chick-flick watching faggot :crackup:
 

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PlayHer Man said:
You sound like a Dr. Phil, chick-flick watching faggot :crackup:
and u guy, sound like a mentally retarded handicapped small assbrain who doesnt get **** no matter how many ppl on this forum tell you so
 

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I am with PlayHerMan and AlphaGhost here.

Having a few affairs while being in an LTR,
is a good concept and works in real life.
Because if you really only have this one vagina,
you will become her slave sooner or later.
 

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incognito42 said:
Just because your sleazeball friends have skanky girlfriends who allow themto cheat, doesn't make it morally acceptable. Then again I only live my life by my own moral standards, so if theyr happy with that life more power to them. But citing an example of 2 of your friends doesn't make it a universal truth

I have a sleazeball friend that's been dating a girl for 7 years and he does as h pleases and she does as he says. This guy once put his gf in timeout an made her sit in the corner over the phone because she said something inappropriate at a party and he found out about it. He cheats on her, and she knows it. You know what thT means? She has mental issues, and she's a weak codependent person

Having chicks at your disposal that you keep at arms length that you flirt with and keep a vibe with wheee u both know u could fvck at anytime, whether you act on it or not, is cheating. Are you ok with your LTR keeping guys around her in the form of special friends thT she could and is planning to fvck olif things go south?

It's not about being afraid of women, it's about not being a d-bag and having respect for and being committed to the person you CHOOSE to be in a LTR with. I don't not cheat because I fear my gf, but because I'm hot a d-bag

I kno you'll prolly attack me now because, well, I jut call you a morally bankrupt d bag. But I actually enjoy reading your posts and your perspective and respect what you have to say here but just disagree with this
Total and complete undying commitment to a woman is for beta's and faggots. The only human beings who deserve that level of commitment from a man are his biological kids. End of story.

Historically, men smashed whoever they wanted married or not. Its a woman's job to commit to a man. Men and women are NOT on the same level. Men and women are not equal.. so get that out of your head.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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PlayHer Man said:
Total and complete undying commitment to a woman is for beta's and faggots. The only human beings who deserve that level of commitment from a man are his biological kids. End of story.

Historically, men smashed whoever they wanted married or not. Its a woman's job to commit to a man. Men and women are NOT on the same level. Men and women are not equal.. so get that out of your head.

admit it, you greww up in a slum sewer
 
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