"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Spinning plates while in a LTR.. Yay or Nay?

Should you spin plates in a LTR?

  • Yes

    Votes: 7 46.7%
  • No

    Votes: 8 53.3%

  • Total voters
    15
  • Poll closed .

ghostridur

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incognito42 said:
Just because your sleazeball friends have skanky girlfriends who allow themto cheat, doesn't make it morally acceptable. Then again I only live my life by my own moral standards, so if theyr happy with that life more power to them. But citing an example of 2 of your friends doesn't make it a universal truth

I have a sleazeball friend that's been dating a girl for 7 years and he does as h pleases and she does as he says. This guy once put his gf in timeout an made her sit in the corner over the phone because she said something inappropriate at a party and he found out about it. He cheats on her, and she knows it. You know what thT means? She has mental issues, and she's a weak codependent person

Having chicks at your disposal that you keep at arms length that you flirt with and keep a vibe with wheee u both know u could fvck at anytime, whether you act on it or not, is cheating. Are you ok with your LTR keeping guys around her in the form of special friends thT she could and is planning to fvck olif things go south?

It's not about being afraid of women, it's about not being a d-bag and having respect for and being committed to the person you CHOOSE to be in a LTR with. I don't not cheat because I fear my gf, but because I'm hot a d-bag

I kno you'll prolly attack me now because, well, I jut call you a morally bankrupt d bag. But I actually enjoy reading your posts and your perspective and respect what you have to say here but just disagree with this
dumba$$ mother****a playher****. no brains. reps to you. i aint a guy who drools over woman but i dont disrespect them
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ghostridur said:
pathetic and laughable. no point in having an ltr then if losing it doesnt matter. finding another woman for emotional bonding is tuff work all over again because the woman has to be perfect in my opinion to emotionally bond, hard to find. the thought of getting caught is even worse , as i gotta deal with the emotional consequences too if i was 'bonded to her emotionally'. when i lose her, im obv. gonna feel like sh!t since she was an ltr
You sound like a Dr. Phil, chick-flick watching faggot :crackup:
 

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PlayHer Man said:
You sound like a Dr. Phil, chick-flick watching faggot :crackup:
and u guy, sound like a mentally retarded handicapped small assbrain who doesnt get **** no matter how many ppl on this forum tell you so
 

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I am with PlayHerMan and AlphaGhost here.

Having a few affairs while being in an LTR,
is a good concept and works in real life.
Because if you really only have this one vagina,
you will become her slave sooner or later.
 

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incognito42 said:
Just because your sleazeball friends have skanky girlfriends who allow themto cheat, doesn't make it morally acceptable. Then again I only live my life by my own moral standards, so if theyr happy with that life more power to them. But citing an example of 2 of your friends doesn't make it a universal truth

I have a sleazeball friend that's been dating a girl for 7 years and he does as h pleases and she does as he says. This guy once put his gf in timeout an made her sit in the corner over the phone because she said something inappropriate at a party and he found out about it. He cheats on her, and she knows it. You know what thT means? She has mental issues, and she's a weak codependent person

Having chicks at your disposal that you keep at arms length that you flirt with and keep a vibe with wheee u both know u could fvck at anytime, whether you act on it or not, is cheating. Are you ok with your LTR keeping guys around her in the form of special friends thT she could and is planning to fvck olif things go south?

It's not about being afraid of women, it's about not being a d-bag and having respect for and being committed to the person you CHOOSE to be in a LTR with. I don't not cheat because I fear my gf, but because I'm hot a d-bag

I kno you'll prolly attack me now because, well, I jut call you a morally bankrupt d bag. But I actually enjoy reading your posts and your perspective and respect what you have to say here but just disagree with this
Total and complete undying commitment to a woman is for beta's and faggots. The only human beings who deserve that level of commitment from a man are his biological kids. End of story.

Historically, men smashed whoever they wanted married or not. Its a woman's job to commit to a man. Men and women are NOT on the same level. Men and women are not equal.. so get that out of your head.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ghostridur

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PlayHer Man said:
Total and complete undying commitment to a woman is for beta's and faggots. The only human beings who deserve that level of commitment from a man are his biological kids. End of story.

Historically, men smashed whoever they wanted married or not. Its a woman's job to commit to a man. Men and women are NOT on the same level. Men and women are not equal.. so get that out of your head.

admit it, you greww up in a slum sewer
 
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