"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Spinning plates while in a LTR.. Yay or Nay?

Should you spin plates in a LTR?

  • Yes

    Votes: 7 46.7%
  • No

    Votes: 8 53.3%

  • Total voters
    15
  • Poll closed .

ghostridur

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incognito42 said:
Just because your sleazeball friends have skanky girlfriends who allow themto cheat, doesn't make it morally acceptable. Then again I only live my life by my own moral standards, so if theyr happy with that life more power to them. But citing an example of 2 of your friends doesn't make it a universal truth

I have a sleazeball friend that's been dating a girl for 7 years and he does as h pleases and she does as he says. This guy once put his gf in timeout an made her sit in the corner over the phone because she said something inappropriate at a party and he found out about it. He cheats on her, and she knows it. You know what thT means? She has mental issues, and she's a weak codependent person

Having chicks at your disposal that you keep at arms length that you flirt with and keep a vibe with wheee u both know u could fvck at anytime, whether you act on it or not, is cheating. Are you ok with your LTR keeping guys around her in the form of special friends thT she could and is planning to fvck olif things go south?

It's not about being afraid of women, it's about not being a d-bag and having respect for and being committed to the person you CHOOSE to be in a LTR with. I don't not cheat because I fear my gf, but because I'm hot a d-bag

I kno you'll prolly attack me now because, well, I jut call you a morally bankrupt d bag. But I actually enjoy reading your posts and your perspective and respect what you have to say here but just disagree with this
dumba$$ mother****a playher****. no brains. reps to you. i aint a guy who drools over woman but i dont disrespect them
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ghostridur said:
pathetic and laughable. no point in having an ltr then if losing it doesnt matter. finding another woman for emotional bonding is tuff work all over again because the woman has to be perfect in my opinion to emotionally bond, hard to find. the thought of getting caught is even worse , as i gotta deal with the emotional consequences too if i was 'bonded to her emotionally'. when i lose her, im obv. gonna feel like sh!t since she was an ltr
You sound like a Dr. Phil, chick-flick watching faggot :crackup:
 

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PlayHer Man said:
You sound like a Dr. Phil, chick-flick watching faggot :crackup:
and u guy, sound like a mentally retarded handicapped small assbrain who doesnt get **** no matter how many ppl on this forum tell you so
 

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I am with PlayHerMan and AlphaGhost here.

Having a few affairs while being in an LTR,
is a good concept and works in real life.
Because if you really only have this one vagina,
you will become her slave sooner or later.
 

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incognito42 said:
Just because your sleazeball friends have skanky girlfriends who allow themto cheat, doesn't make it morally acceptable. Then again I only live my life by my own moral standards, so if theyr happy with that life more power to them. But citing an example of 2 of your friends doesn't make it a universal truth

I have a sleazeball friend that's been dating a girl for 7 years and he does as h pleases and she does as he says. This guy once put his gf in timeout an made her sit in the corner over the phone because she said something inappropriate at a party and he found out about it. He cheats on her, and she knows it. You know what thT means? She has mental issues, and she's a weak codependent person

Having chicks at your disposal that you keep at arms length that you flirt with and keep a vibe with wheee u both know u could fvck at anytime, whether you act on it or not, is cheating. Are you ok with your LTR keeping guys around her in the form of special friends thT she could and is planning to fvck olif things go south?

It's not about being afraid of women, it's about not being a d-bag and having respect for and being committed to the person you CHOOSE to be in a LTR with. I don't not cheat because I fear my gf, but because I'm hot a d-bag

I kno you'll prolly attack me now because, well, I jut call you a morally bankrupt d bag. But I actually enjoy reading your posts and your perspective and respect what you have to say here but just disagree with this
Total and complete undying commitment to a woman is for beta's and faggots. The only human beings who deserve that level of commitment from a man are his biological kids. End of story.

Historically, men smashed whoever they wanted married or not. Its a woman's job to commit to a man. Men and women are NOT on the same level. Men and women are not equal.. so get that out of your head.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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PlayHer Man said:
Total and complete undying commitment to a woman is for beta's and faggots. The only human beings who deserve that level of commitment from a man are his biological kids. End of story.

Historically, men smashed whoever they wanted married or not. Its a woman's job to commit to a man. Men and women are NOT on the same level. Men and women are not equal.. so get that out of your head.

admit it, you greww up in a slum sewer
 
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