Spinning 3 plates is overwhelming

[LucianoM]

This reminds me of when an NBA basketball coach had stated that his team was so good, he was having a difficult time rationing out playing-minutes to the players.

He also stated that, despite this issue, it is a good problem to have as a coach because it is testament to how great the team is, and now good the players are.

So, the fact that you have a nice rotation is indeed a good thing..although it can be overwhelming to keep them all content.

I'm also going through a similar situation, so I can relate.

And as much as I love the company of women, I also value my "me"/"alone" time.

Sometimes, I just want to be at the crib, alone, unbothered..peace, and tranquility.

Instead, I gotta deal with responding to phones calls, texts...requests to come over or workout together...when sometimes, I JUST WANNA BE LEFT ALONE!!

I get a text from a chick asking me to come over...and I gotta find a way to tell her "Nah, I'm in for the night"....and I can't tell her I'll see her tomorrow, because I got plans with another one tomorrow.

It can be overwhelming...but nevertheless, are still good "problems" to have.

The solution is...

1. Keep the rotations to a tolerable minimum (whatever the # is that'll keep you from being overwhelmed).

Or..

2. Set some "I'll reach out to you if I need you, until then, don't bother me" boundaries.

My issue is; old puzzy gets old, and my constant quests for new puzzy is nonstop, unavoidable...so #2 seems to be the best option for myself.

I'm glutton for punishment, but it's still fun.

Facts, this is exaclty what i was going thru.

 

[LucianoM]

Seems like there are levels to this.

Level1. No women . Women collectively decided you are not good enough and you get zero play. You're an incel

Level 2 you ought to be happy with ANY womanb(sub hb4) and sometimes higher but it will ALWAYS be from a position of male scarcity. She will run circles around you and make your life hard.

Level 3 is where it gets interesting: you can get multiple women but all of them FEAR you will upgrade/ take advantage of opportunities aka play them whenever you can and thus pressure you to fully commit. This is where most men will peak. Simultaneously you are NOT yet " great " enough to pull Level 4 shyte, because YOU are still quite replaceable. Spinning plates will be stressful as all of said plates will FEEL your attention is leaking elsewhere..

Level 4: you're a top-tier man who can be honest and open about the other women. You can say you won't ever commit and she is part of a rotation. Some will temporarily be okay with this.

Level 5 will be similar but you're status and or financial abundance is so strong that some women will actually stay. You basically got yourself a true harem. Congratulations.

Well my plan is to become official bf/gf with my main girl BUT tell her that she has to let me keep my female friends but shell still be the "queen". I don't know how this will go over or if im being unrealistic and asking too much(she tends to get jealous) but if she wants a top tier man all to her self that chit ain't gonna happen. I'm willing to finally have an official gf but im not willing to miss out on all the pvssy that has yet to come.

 

[MatureDJ]

To paraphrase Einstein, I have no "frame of reference" to know what's it like to spin 3 plates - it's hard enough just spinning 1 plate.