"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Spin plates or stick with this one?

zorg198

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Hello,

I have a question , currently i'm dating with a 30 years old chick which is fun and no pressure whats so ever, we seem to enjoy each other and so on... today some girl approached me and told her friend is interested in me and want's to date with me , i told her i'm dating someone but i'll think about it. i want to avoid dating a girl from work since i learned my mistake last time, she told me this girl is leaving work in one month for school. now , this 30 year old is very mature and don't have this stupid things young girls do but also i cant pass of how good this 24 year old girl look.

any advice?

Joe.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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cervantesscthree

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Keep the 30 year old a serious plate in my opinion, and bang the wrk chick once she's left yr nest.

Or...

If life is good like the Nas album and you've achieved what you've always wanted in life (at such a remarkably young age I might add) and there's NOTHING at all you feel the need to accomplish, then fvck following the game! & Get that MILF pregnant :box:
 

zorg198

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F@ck it ,told the girl i will date her friend .

Since Saturday I haven't spoken with the other chick , she pisses me off , I'm tired driving her and paying every time , I'm not her *****.

Joe.
 

zorg198

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Of course I do, I don't know why but my excitement throwad her is very low , two weeks ago it was higher.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Desdinova

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You should always spin plates until one of them wants commitment. When that happens, that's when you evaluate your options and figure out if the one seeking commitment is worth keeping or dumping. If you have other plates that carry more value, then you cut her loose.
 

zorg198

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The issue is i am tired always initiating , driving her and pay . Also she keeps eating **** and not trying to lift her value up. i don't need this kind of women next to me....
 

Desdinova

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Then keep looking to replace her. I was in a LTR with a woman a year older than me. When she started getting fat and pushing the issue of moving in, I began looking for something new. I replaced her with a 21 year old and never looked back.

Don't settle for garbage.
 

zorg198

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This is what I am doing , for now i am keeping her for sex until i will find someone better.
 
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