"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Spin plates or stick with this one?

zorg198

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Hello,

I have a question , currently i'm dating with a 30 years old chick which is fun and no pressure whats so ever, we seem to enjoy each other and so on... today some girl approached me and told her friend is interested in me and want's to date with me , i told her i'm dating someone but i'll think about it. i want to avoid dating a girl from work since i learned my mistake last time, she told me this girl is leaving work in one month for school. now , this 30 year old is very mature and don't have this stupid things young girls do but also i cant pass of how good this 24 year old girl look.

any advice?

Joe.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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cervantesscthree

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Keep the 30 year old a serious plate in my opinion, and bang the wrk chick once she's left yr nest.

Or...

If life is good like the Nas album and you've achieved what you've always wanted in life (at such a remarkably young age I might add) and there's NOTHING at all you feel the need to accomplish, then fvck following the game! & Get that MILF pregnant :box:
 

zorg198

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F@ck it ,told the girl i will date her friend .

Since Saturday I haven't spoken with the other chick , she pisses me off , I'm tired driving her and paying every time , I'm not her *****.

Joe.
 

zorg198

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Of course I do, I don't know why but my excitement throwad her is very low , two weeks ago it was higher.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Desdinova

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You should always spin plates until one of them wants commitment. When that happens, that's when you evaluate your options and figure out if the one seeking commitment is worth keeping or dumping. If you have other plates that carry more value, then you cut her loose.
 

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The issue is i am tired always initiating , driving her and pay . Also she keeps eating **** and not trying to lift her value up. i don't need this kind of women next to me....
 

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Then keep looking to replace her. I was in a LTR with a woman a year older than me. When she started getting fat and pushing the issue of moving in, I began looking for something new. I replaced her with a 21 year old and never looked back.

Don't settle for garbage.
 

zorg198

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This is what I am doing , for now i am keeping her for sex until i will find someone better.
 
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