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Guys how do i spike my hair. I know i need to use some spiking gel and then blowdry it but my spikes never come out as good as the guys i see at the clubs. I want short spikes. ANy body have any technqies my hair is about 3 incches long
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

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Which product and technique to use is probably going to depend on the texture of your hair. I'd ask your stylist what she recommends, since they're usually pretty knowledgable about about matching product and styling technique with hair texture.
 

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start by getting a good haircut.

and by that i mean avoid greatclips and master cuts.
 

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Originally posted by Julian
start by getting a good haircut.

and by that i mean avoid greatclips and master cuts.
Lol.


I've been wanting to change my hair into something like this:

http://www4.islanddefjam.com/media/killers/press/spincover.jpg

The guy in the center, to the left; Brandon Flowers :)crackup: ) the singer of The Killers band.

The Killers have style, and after seeing his haircut, I've been wanting to go from long hair to shorter. Even though it is a pretty normal-looking haircut.

Dunno if I'll really need a stylist for this though.
 

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that **** looks g4y, just my 2 cents
 

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She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

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Originally posted by Skel
that **** looks g4y, just my 2 cents
..... It is not gay God damn it! It's ****ing stylish! :mad: :down:
 

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This will do just about anything to your hair. Apply it to a head of drying hair. Not soaked...anywho my hair is real stubborn and this works great. It's cheap and readily available. "sculpting clay"

 

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I use sumthin like that to spike my hair... its called fiber paste.
I only do it cuz i don't like my hair drooping over my forehead and looking like ben stiller in "There's something about mary" :D

On a side note:

Gay people have zero style. They have fashion.
Never confuse the two.

Style: You do what you think looks cool.

Fashion: You do it to fit in, with other confused "men".

Note the parenthesis around the word men.
 

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That picture, is not what I call spiking your hair.




I'd consider that a long spiked hair type thing. The picture you showed us, is like some stuck up 60's haircut. You just might get beat up for that. Whatever floats your boat though.
 

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Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

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Originally posted by The Bartender
This will do just about anything to your hair. Apply it to a head of drying hair. Not soaked...anywho my hair is real stubborn and this works great. It's cheap and readily available. "sculpting clay"

is that **** better than wax? i thought going wax would be a better alternative to gel, but i guess not. I have hard hair, so wax doesnt do the job right...also **** gets dirty fast.
 

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Originally posted by ScrewIt
is that **** better than wax? i thought going wax would be a better alternative to gel, but i guess not. I have hard hair, so wax doesnt do the job right...also **** gets dirty fast.
Way better than wax IMO. I've used gel, spray, wax, waxy gel spray, hair glue (not bad), and then this clay. By far the best hair stuff for stubborn hair. Use small amounts at first in the finger tips to get used to its hold. It's pretty tough stuff
 
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