Guys how do i spike my hair. I know i need to use some spiking gel and then blowdry it but my spikes never come out as good as the guys i see at the clubs. I want short spikes. ANy body have any technqies my hair is about 3 incches long
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Lol.Originally posted by Julian
start by getting a good haircut.
and by that i mean avoid greatclips and master cuts.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
..... It is not gay God damn it! It's ****ing stylish!Originally posted by Skel
that **** looks g4y, just my 2 cents
those are quotations...Originally posted by Jake-inator
Note the parenthesis around the word men.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
is that **** better than wax? i thought going wax would be a better alternative to gel, but i guess not. I have hard hair, so wax doesnt do the job right...also **** gets dirty fast.Originally posted by The Bartender
This will do just about anything to your hair. Apply it to a head of drying hair. Not soaked...anywho my hair is real stubborn and this works great. It's cheap and readily available. "sculpting clay"
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Way better than wax IMO. I've used gel, spray, wax, waxy gel spray, hair glue (not bad), and then this clay. By far the best hair stuff for stubborn hair. Use small amounts at first in the finger tips to get used to its hold. It's pretty tough stuffOriginally posted by ScrewIt
is that **** better than wax? i thought going wax would be a better alternative to gel, but i guess not. I have hard hair, so wax doesnt do the job right...also **** gets dirty fast.