Guys how do i spike my hair. I know i need to use some spiking gel and then blowdry it but my spikes never come out as good as the guys i see at the clubs. I want short spikes. ANy body have any technqies my hair is about 3 incches long
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Lol.Originally posted by Julian
start by getting a good haircut.
and by that i mean avoid greatclips and master cuts.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
..... It is not gay God damn it! It's ****ing stylish!Originally posted by Skel
that **** looks g4y, just my 2 cents
those are quotations...Originally posted by Jake-inator
Note the parenthesis around the word men.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
is that **** better than wax? i thought going wax would be a better alternative to gel, but i guess not. I have hard hair, so wax doesnt do the job right...also **** gets dirty fast.Originally posted by The Bartender
This will do just about anything to your hair. Apply it to a head of drying hair. Not soaked...anywho my hair is real stubborn and this works great. It's cheap and readily available. "sculpting clay"
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Way better than wax IMO. I've used gel, spray, wax, waxy gel spray, hair glue (not bad), and then this clay. By far the best hair stuff for stubborn hair. Use small amounts at first in the finger tips to get used to its hold. It's pretty tough stuffOriginally posted by ScrewIt
is that **** better than wax? i thought going wax would be a better alternative to gel, but i guess not. I have hard hair, so wax doesnt do the job right...also **** gets dirty fast.