"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Spiked hair?

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What do guys think of having spiky hair?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Eternal

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If it's something you do, go for it. I just think it's overrated though and outplayed, depending on what type of spiking you mean.
 

TyTe`EyEs

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Originally posted by crazykid
If it's something you do, go for it. I just think it's overrated though and outplayed, depending on what type of spiking you mean.
My feelings exactly.
 

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go for it man spiked hair makes u look older and chicks dig it

dont giv a **** what your m8s think if you are because they will realise soon that it works.

change your hairstyle every month the girls love it im telling you

sorry if any grammer or spelling problems im pissed(drunk)
 

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Originally posted by Ratman
dont giv a **** what your m8s think if you are because they will realise soon that it works.
That's the problem...EVERYONE uses it now, so whats the point of it?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ratman

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yeah good point it is popular thats why should hav a differnet hair style all the time
 

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Originally posted by AFK Protector
What sane person would change their hairstyle for women? Not me.
Not me. I have two hairstyles: hat and no hat
 

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I change my hairstyle every 1 or 2 months just because I want to, not because of any woman. Although I've been keeping my sideburns for the longest time
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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i do not know what kind of spiked you mean, but a freind of a freind i was with had seriously spiked her in a goth kind of fashion, really whacky like, not your every day kind of hair. He got so much attention, i noticed that girls we new payed more attention to him.

be ware it also brings you unwanted attention, a group of pikeys came up beihnd us and started messing with his hair, 1 of them (unsuccesfully) tryed to set his hair on fire with a lighter.
 

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be ware it also brings you unwanted attention, a group of pikeys came up beihnd us and started messing with his hair, 1 of them (unsuccesfully) tryed to set his hair on fire with a lighter.
Seriously? pikeys? Have you seen the movie Snatch? I need to go to England.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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^In Snatch they are portrayed as nomad Irish people, sneaky little ****ers aswell(which you discover at the end of movie).

However, I don't think they are totally like the way Snatch makes them out to be like. I think they're just filthy *******s.
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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Dapper Don i did not mean that kind of pikey, yes i have seen the film snatch i was not talking about those kind of pikeys, i mean more like trevs, ware white and gold jewellery go around trying to cause trouble, in england they call those pikeys, sure there probably called that after rela pikeys but i did not mean the ones like in the film snatch.

You do get some proper pikeys in england, theres a trailer park near 1 freinds house with pikeys in and they go around braking in to houses.
 

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Spiked hair was in about 6 or 7 months ago. But it moved over to the messy forward spiked look. Its a mix between forward with the flip in the front and spiky hair. I use the hairstyle, and I must say it looks damn sexy. Try it out.
 

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I like to tell girls:

"I spent 8 hours getting my hair like this last night."

Girl: "Wow, really?"

"Yep, I like to use my pillow."
 

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AFK Protector, are you telling me you don't take girls into consideration when it comes to your appearance? That seems a bit silly to me. I'm not a big fan of metro guys either, but the reason you try to look good isn't because of your guy friends; you do it because you think the ladies like it.

Try some different things and go with what works. If you look good in a hat, wear a hat. If you don't (like me) then don't wear a hat. just see what the ladies respond to.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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