"spending quality time together"

[madgame]

I often hear that only spending quality time together will help not make the relationship boring (and Ive seen ppl break up because they ended up 'being friends' and stuff like that pretty often).

How do you do that, tho? I mean what is quality time after all? If you go to your g/f's house and have sex is that quality time?
and only going to her house to watch tv everyday but not doing anything sexual is not "quality" time? Does spending quality time together pretty much equal just not spending too much time together?

cause I feel like things gonna be more exciting and Ill appreciate her more if I see her like 3 or 4 days a week not every day. cause ive learned in life that u appreciate things way more if you dont get them too often (and I dont really consider this playing mind tricks or games on the girl, because Im talking about myself as much as about her..I'll appreciate her more if I see her less.."less is more").

So anyways what do u guys exactly mean by quality time?

 

[stalluproar]

I think when a girl says this, the guy confuses quality time with quantity time. That is the big killer. Also if a girl says this, I think she is losing the attraction towards the guy.

 

[madgame]

You got me wrong. I was talking about guys on this forum giving the advice of only spending 'quality time' together in order for the girl not to get bored with u. And I think that seems like a good idea..

 

[frivolousz21]

quality time..having fun.

not sitting on a couch or in the same movie theatre week after week.

quality time=

comedy club, sporting event, ice rink, city park, zoo, art museum...anything outdoors

 

[Royal Elite]

Originally posted by frivolousz21
quality time..having fun.

not sitting on a couch or in the same movie theatre week after week.

quality time=

comedy club, sporting event, ice rink, city park, zoo, art museum...anything outdoors

Like he said, but the most simple way to put it:

Doing Things together!