"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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lighthouse1956

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I'm spending way too much money, I've been cutting back by cooking at home and inviting them over,and then the girls usually invite me to their place for the next meal. I've been having "coffe dates" for 1st dates, and if I take them out, it's mostly for lunch instead of dinner.But I still need to cut back, even online 1st dates,I.ve been meeting them half-way if they live out of town,

Do any of you have other suggestions?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Latinoman

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lighthouse1956 said:
I'm spending way too much money, I've been cutting back by cooking at home and inviting them over,and then the girls usually invite me to their place for the next meal. I've been having "coffe dates" for 1st dates, and if I take them out, it's mostly for lunch instead of dinner.But I still need to cut back, even online 1st dates,I.ve been meeting them half-way if they live out of town,

Do any of you have other suggestions?
I only "date" once I know the attraction has been established.
 

joekerr31

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if you go on the first date and you know you aren't interested in a second date with her, when she gets up to go to the washroom reach in to her wallet/purse and take all her money.

this way you'll actually MAKE money on these dates. :whistle:
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Out of town? Unless you live in a town of 200 people, stick to women who live in the same area. If you do connect with one you don't want the distance to make things difficult.
 
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