"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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lighthouse1956

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I'm spending way too much money, I've been cutting back by cooking at home and inviting them over,and then the girls usually invite me to their place for the next meal. I've been having "coffe dates" for 1st dates, and if I take them out, it's mostly for lunch instead of dinner.But I still need to cut back, even online 1st dates,I.ve been meeting them half-way if they live out of town,

Do any of you have other suggestions?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Latinoman

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lighthouse1956 said:
I'm spending way too much money, I've been cutting back by cooking at home and inviting them over,and then the girls usually invite me to their place for the next meal. I've been having "coffe dates" for 1st dates, and if I take them out, it's mostly for lunch instead of dinner.But I still need to cut back, even online 1st dates,I.ve been meeting them half-way if they live out of town,

Do any of you have other suggestions?
I only "date" once I know the attraction has been established.
 

joekerr31

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if you go on the first date and you know you aren't interested in a second date with her, when she gets up to go to the washroom reach in to her wallet/purse and take all her money.

this way you'll actually MAKE money on these dates. :whistle:
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Out of town? Unless you live in a town of 200 people, stick to women who live in the same area. If you do connect with one you don't want the distance to make things difficult.
 
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