"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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lighthouse1956

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I'm spending way too much money, I've been cutting back by cooking at home and inviting them over,and then the girls usually invite me to their place for the next meal. I've been having "coffe dates" for 1st dates, and if I take them out, it's mostly for lunch instead of dinner.But I still need to cut back, even online 1st dates,I.ve been meeting them half-way if they live out of town,

Do any of you have other suggestions?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Latinoman

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lighthouse1956 said:
I'm spending way too much money, I've been cutting back by cooking at home and inviting them over,and then the girls usually invite me to their place for the next meal. I've been having "coffe dates" for 1st dates, and if I take them out, it's mostly for lunch instead of dinner.But I still need to cut back, even online 1st dates,I.ve been meeting them half-way if they live out of town,

Do any of you have other suggestions?
I only "date" once I know the attraction has been established.
 

joekerr31

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if you go on the first date and you know you aren't interested in a second date with her, when she gets up to go to the washroom reach in to her wallet/purse and take all her money.

this way you'll actually MAKE money on these dates. :whistle:
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Out of town? Unless you live in a town of 200 people, stick to women who live in the same area. If you do connect with one you don't want the distance to make things difficult.
 
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