Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Speer's Edge: "Sexual Tension"

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You can start with something my good friend Adam showed me.

Here is my version called the "Sexual Tension Test":

1. Tell the girl "We are going to play a game...You stare into my eyes and I will stare into yours. The first one that laughs loses. ok go! No touching though. Dont get any funny ideas."

2. Once you guys are staring into each others eyes tell her
"Now think sexual thoughts" This will add great sexual tension

3. Do this until either she breaks eye contact or laughs. If she doesn't laugh keep moving forward like you are going to kiss her. If she still doesn't break kiss her.

If she laughs call her a "loser" in a funny calibrated way, and escalate normally.

Good Luck
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i dont really like this. to me your making it sound like the idea of you two being sexual is funny/ridiculous (your telling her to try not to laugh).

maybe thats just me, idk.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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