"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Speer's Edge: "Sexual Tension"

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You can start with something my good friend Adam showed me.

Here is my version called the "Sexual Tension Test":

1. Tell the girl "We are going to play a game...You stare into my eyes and I will stare into yours. The first one that laughs loses. ok go! No touching though. Dont get any funny ideas."

2. Once you guys are staring into each others eyes tell her
"Now think sexual thoughts" This will add great sexual tension

3. Do this until either she breaks eye contact or laughs. If she doesn't laugh keep moving forward like you are going to kiss her. If she still doesn't break kiss her.

If she laughs call her a "loser" in a funny calibrated way, and escalate normally.

Good Luck
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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i dont really like this. to me your making it sound like the idea of you two being sexual is funny/ridiculous (your telling her to try not to laugh).

maybe thats just me, idk.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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