"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

Speer's Edge: "Sexual Tension"

Speer Method

Banned
Joined
May 20, 2009
Messages
149
Reaction score
3
Location
Speer's Penthouse
You can start with something my good friend Adam showed me.

Here is my version called the "Sexual Tension Test":

1. Tell the girl "We are going to play a game...You stare into my eyes and I will stare into yours. The first one that laughs loses. ok go! No touching though. Dont get any funny ideas."

2. Once you guys are staring into each others eyes tell her
"Now think sexual thoughts" This will add great sexual tension

3. Do this until either she breaks eye contact or laughs. If she doesn't laugh keep moving forward like you are going to kiss her. If she still doesn't break kiss her.

If she laughs call her a "loser" in a funny calibrated way, and escalate normally.

Good Luck
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Thyme

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 25, 2009
Messages
127
Reaction score
1
Location
Wisconsin
i dont really like this. to me your making it sound like the idea of you two being sexual is funny/ridiculous (your telling her to try not to laugh).

maybe thats just me, idk.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Top