"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Speer's Edge: "Sexual Tension"

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You can start with something my good friend Adam showed me.

Here is my version called the "Sexual Tension Test":

1. Tell the girl "We are going to play a game...You stare into my eyes and I will stare into yours. The first one that laughs loses. ok go! No touching though. Dont get any funny ideas."

2. Once you guys are staring into each others eyes tell her
"Now think sexual thoughts" This will add great sexual tension

3. Do this until either she breaks eye contact or laughs. If she doesn't laugh keep moving forward like you are going to kiss her. If she still doesn't break kiss her.

If she laughs call her a "loser" in a funny calibrated way, and escalate normally.

Good Luck
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Thyme

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i dont really like this. to me your making it sound like the idea of you two being sexual is funny/ridiculous (your telling her to try not to laugh).

maybe thats just me, idk.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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