"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Speer's Edge: Boyfriend Destroyer TACTIC

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Don Juanabbe

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Try finding some single women, messing around with another guys chick WILL get you into unnecessary trouble.
 

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Speer what you are doing may be new or out of the norm for the people here. Hence you may be receiving negative response here and there as such. But it's nice you took their comments openly and it didn't spark off to another flaming thread like I would imagine what The Logical Player would have done. No offense to TLP.

I agree with people here about not messing with another guys chick, you place yourself in a position where you require alot of work to get things going. The amount of work may well just be able to get you 1-2 more new plates.

Coming to your original post, I have doubts that what you mentioned would work as well like what they said. No intention to put you down but it is nice reading into how you would do it. Yep so it's another recipe for the same food.

Will keep in the back of my head. Thanks and do keep contributing I'll read it=)
 

Speer Method

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Not at all bud,

There is never a reason to start a flame war. I am here to help. Some guys may use this particular information while others may not. My tactics are open for discussion while their use is unquestioned.

I am just trying to give back to one of the communities that have given me so much.

More Speer's Edge Posts coming soon. Also be on the look out for the FREE Speer Method Q&A
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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