"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Speer's Edge: Boyfriend Destroyer TACTIC

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Try finding some single women, messing around with another guys chick WILL get you into unnecessary trouble.
 
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Speer what you are doing may be new or out of the norm for the people here. Hence you may be receiving negative response here and there as such. But it's nice you took their comments openly and it didn't spark off to another flaming thread like I would imagine what The Logical Player would have done. No offense to TLP.

I agree with people here about not messing with another guys chick, you place yourself in a position where you require alot of work to get things going. The amount of work may well just be able to get you 1-2 more new plates.

Coming to your original post, I have doubts that what you mentioned would work as well like what they said. No intention to put you down but it is nice reading into how you would do it. Yep so it's another recipe for the same food.

Will keep in the back of my head. Thanks and do keep contributing I'll read it=)
 
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Not at all bud,

There is never a reason to start a flame war. I am here to help. Some guys may use this particular information while others may not. My tactics are open for discussion while their use is unquestioned.

I am just trying to give back to one of the communities that have given me so much.

More Speer's Edge Posts coming soon. Also be on the look out for the FREE Speer Method Q&A
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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