"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Speer's Edge: Boyfriend Destroyer TACTIC

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Try finding some single women, messing around with another guys chick WILL get you into unnecessary trouble.
 
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Speer what you are doing may be new or out of the norm for the people here. Hence you may be receiving negative response here and there as such. But it's nice you took their comments openly and it didn't spark off to another flaming thread like I would imagine what The Logical Player would have done. No offense to TLP.

I agree with people here about not messing with another guys chick, you place yourself in a position where you require alot of work to get things going. The amount of work may well just be able to get you 1-2 more new plates.

Coming to your original post, I have doubts that what you mentioned would work as well like what they said. No intention to put you down but it is nice reading into how you would do it. Yep so it's another recipe for the same food.

Will keep in the back of my head. Thanks and do keep contributing I'll read it=)
 
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Not at all bud,

There is never a reason to start a flame war. I am here to help. Some guys may use this particular information while others may not. My tactics are open for discussion while their use is unquestioned.

I am just trying to give back to one of the communities that have given me so much.

More Speer's Edge Posts coming soon. Also be on the look out for the FREE Speer Method Q&A
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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