Speer's Edge: Begining 12 Do's & Dont's

[Speer Method]

1. Don't be too obsessive. If the girl doesn't call, they might have been too busy to answer. Leaving 5 voice mails just makes you appear desperate.

2. Don't move too quickly. It could cause a pipi le pew situation (you persue and the other runs away as fast as they can).

3. Don't talk too much about your ex's. And if you do, don't say anything disparaging. Treat it as a new relationship so empty your luggage at the door.

4. Be courteous. Please and thank you go a long way.

5. Be flexible. If you have to cancel, reschedule unless you really didn't want to go out with the girl to begin with.

6. Guys, I hate to say it, but bring cash and/or plastic to the date. If the woman wants to go dutch great, but expect to pay on the first date atleast.

7. Do open her doors. Hold out your hand if you have a really big car/truck and if she has a skirt and heels, etc. Little things go a long way.

8. Do compliment the other person and show interest.

9. Do listen to your date. Shut up about yourself for a few minutes to hear what they have to say. (I have to remind myself of this one personally).

10. Don't drink too much. Impaired judgment always follows.

11. Don't look too hard for faults in the other person. You'll always find something to sabotage the next relationship. You've been hurt before so you don't want to set yourself up to have it happen again.

12. Don't make plans too quickly (i.e. don't start naming your future kids on the second date).

 

[Maxtro]

A thread on date etiquette? I think a lot of this stuff is common sense.

I was expecting a bit more from the title. Something about increasing or solidifying attraction.

 

[Atom Smasher]

It's alsways good to be reminded now and then, and common sense is actually very uncommon, don't you think?

 

[Taviii]

13. Do. Use a condom!

neah

 

[zekko]

How does all this politeness square with the "women want jerks" concept?
Or could it be that women really don't want jerks?

 

[search1ng]

woman don't want jerks damnit, they want people that have the confidence and take no sh1t attitude jerks have. Theres a huge difference. Of course there is the odd exception though.

 

[Speer Method]

woman don't want jerks damnit, they want people that have the confidence and take no sh1t attitude jerks have. Theres a huge difference. Of course there is the odd exception though.

Very true search1ng,

Women normally want a guy that can stay in his frame and have the confidence to be themselves. Most guys think being themselves without confirming to the girl is being a jerk or assh0le but its not.

Being a gentleman and having manors goes along way. This idea of being a jerk on purpose will get you laid is false. Not only will it ruin possible long lasting relationships but it will also make you incongruent if that is not your typical behavior.

Be yourself and keep this common and simple guidelines for continued success. Also always remember the biggest influence in our life is the mass media. So you can see what our society expects.

Peace out,

 

[virginat40]

woman don't want jerks damnit, they want people that have the confidence and take no sh1t attitude jerks have. Theres a huge difference. Of course there is the odd exception though.

women want jerks because they are jerks, look at what they did

get creeped out when I say hello
want only the hot guy
don't show up for dates freequently
stop responding to mesages and disappear
lie lie lie lie lie lie esecially about having a boyfriend
have her boyfriend beat me up, it happened to me
avoid virgins
play games and jerk you around

 

[EFFORT]

18. Don't! If you plan on busting in her mouth, remember; Protein supplements can make your goo taste bad for her. Edit: Alcohol too.

lol screw that, thats the best part of a bj

 

[nismo-4]

This is common sense sh*t, but most women don't care about this stuff.

 

[Speer Method]

Common sense isnt so common