"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hello fellows,

I have got a question , i have been on a speeddate recently, in the past i was matched up with some girls (even had a relationship for about 4 months)
But nowadays, i don''t even get a date out of a speeddate event... what's the problem here?? (p.s the girls were different so thats not the problem... but it seems that i went from a hottie to a not-tie..plz some advise..:confused:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Thanks for you're reply Espi,

But i did that already:)... and i am a pretty confident guy, and i have talked to some girls before the event..so thats why i am so suprised about " no matches"....
 
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Speeddating is a well known scam. They purposely keep from matching you up with somebody so you keep coming back. It's in the SD best companies interest that you remain single.
 
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lifemisspent said:
Speeddating is a well known scam. They purposely keep from matching you up with somebody so you keep coming back. It's in the SD best companies interest that you remain single.
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I doubt that. Because if that ever came out, they'd have a hell of a class action suit on their hands and could be forced in court to backpay all that money. All it would take is for one disgruntled or fired employee to spill the beans and any such company would be a world of trouble.
 
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allright, some extra info about the situation

i have had met a girl before at some SD event, and i had a relationship with her for about 4 months... this relationship went wrong without a good reason.... the girl just came by and ended the relationship???


but nowadays getting a date on a SD event isn't that easy anymore....
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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