"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hello fellows,

I have got a question , i have been on a speeddate recently, in the past i was matched up with some girls (even had a relationship for about 4 months)
But nowadays, i don''t even get a date out of a speeddate event... what's the problem here?? (p.s the girls were different so thats not the problem... but it seems that i went from a hottie to a not-tie..plz some advise..:confused:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Thanks for you're reply Espi,

But i did that already:)... and i am a pretty confident guy, and i have talked to some girls before the event..so thats why i am so suprised about " no matches"....
 
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Speeddating is a well known scam. They purposely keep from matching you up with somebody so you keep coming back. It's in the SD best companies interest that you remain single.
 
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lifemisspent said:
Speeddating is a well known scam. They purposely keep from matching you up with somebody so you keep coming back. It's in the SD best companies interest that you remain single.
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I doubt that. Because if that ever came out, they'd have a hell of a class action suit on their hands and could be forced in court to backpay all that money. All it would take is for one disgruntled or fired employee to spill the beans and any such company would be a world of trouble.
 
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allright, some extra info about the situation

i have had met a girl before at some SD event, and i had a relationship with her for about 4 months... this relationship went wrong without a good reason.... the girl just came by and ended the relationship???


but nowadays getting a date on a SD event isn't that easy anymore....
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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