"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

Speeddating

R

rob1234

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 14, 2009
Messages
21
Reaction score
0
Hello fellows,

I have got a question , i have been on a speeddate recently, in the past i was matched up with some girls (even had a relationship for about 4 months)
But nowadays, i don''t even get a date out of a speeddate event... what's the problem here?? (p.s the girls were different so thats not the problem... but it seems that i went from a hottie to a not-tie..plz some advise..:confused:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

R

rob1234

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 14, 2009
Messages
21
Reaction score
0
Thanks for you're reply Espi,

But i did that already:)... and i am a pretty confident guy, and i have talked to some girls before the event..so thats why i am so suprised about " no matches"....
 
L

lifemisspent

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 19, 2009
Messages
79
Reaction score
0
Speeddating is a well known scam. They purposely keep from matching you up with somebody so you keep coming back. It's in the SD best companies interest that you remain single.
 
S

speakeasy

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 4, 2006
Messages
2,776
Reaction score
77
lifemisspent said:
Speeddating is a well known scam. They purposely keep from matching you up with somebody so you keep coming back. It's in the SD best companies interest that you remain single.
Click to expand...
I doubt that. Because if that ever came out, they'd have a hell of a class action suit on their hands and could be forced in court to backpay all that money. All it would take is for one disgruntled or fired employee to spill the beans and any such company would be a world of trouble.
 
R

rob1234

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 14, 2009
Messages
21
Reaction score
0
allright, some extra info about the situation

i have had met a girl before at some SD event, and i had a relationship with her for about 4 months... this relationship went wrong without a good reason.... the girl just came by and ended the relationship???


but nowadays getting a date on a SD event isn't that easy anymore....
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top