"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Speeddating

rob1234

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Hello fellows,

I have got a question , i have been on a speeddate recently, in the past i was matched up with some girls (even had a relationship for about 4 months)
But nowadays, i don''t even get a date out of a speeddate event... what's the problem here?? (p.s the girls were different so thats not the problem... but it seems that i went from a hottie to a not-tie..plz some advise..:confused:
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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rob1234

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Thanks for you're reply Espi,

But i did that already:)... and i am a pretty confident guy, and i have talked to some girls before the event..so thats why i am so suprised about " no matches"....
 

lifemisspent

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Speeddating is a well known scam. They purposely keep from matching you up with somebody so you keep coming back. It's in the SD best companies interest that you remain single.
 

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lifemisspent said:
Speeddating is a well known scam. They purposely keep from matching you up with somebody so you keep coming back. It's in the SD best companies interest that you remain single.
I doubt that. Because if that ever came out, they'd have a hell of a class action suit on their hands and could be forced in court to backpay all that money. All it would take is for one disgruntled or fired employee to spill the beans and any such company would be a world of trouble.
 

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allright, some extra info about the situation

i have had met a girl before at some SD event, and i had a relationship with her for about 4 months... this relationship went wrong without a good reason.... the girl just came by and ended the relationship???


but nowadays getting a date on a SD event isn't that easy anymore....
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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