Thoroughbred
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Have you tried speed dating? If you have, how did it work out for you?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
i did speed dating 3 weeks ago. do a search & type speed dating & you will be able to read my experience. Most of it comes down to initial attraction. Chicks just like dudes are looking for an attractive mate & if you dont meet there expectations, they wont pick you. Its sort of a fun experience, but it can be tough to end up getting a phone # & date. There were some cuties at the event i went to, & there were some porkers too. There were no bikini models. Arrive early, BS w/ girls at the bar, dress well, flirt, be funny & unique. They encourage everyone to take notes, because you will forget who they all were when you get home. For some reason there were alot of teachers at the event i went to?? There are all types of people at these. They are $$$ makers for the people that organize it for sure, but just try it, its only $30-$40.Originally posted by Thoroughbred
Have you tried speed dating? If you have, how did it work out for you?
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.