You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Quality guys (i.e. players and alphas) don't hang at speed dating events, if anything they're at a foam party or club. Women know thismr. kennedy said:But 90% of the guys women meet are either dorks/douches and the other 10% are players. Believe it or not, women have a hard time meeting quality guys.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
:crackup: :crackup:casaanova said:Quality guys (i.e. players and alphas)
Quality guys definitely doesn't equal players. And not all alphas are quality.casaanova said:Quality guys (i.e. players and alphas) don't hang at speed dating events, if anything they're at a foam party or club. Women know this
Speed dating = I'm looking for a "nice" husband to wife me up before it's too late