"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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mr. kennedy

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Anyone ever tried them?

Are the girls normal or more insane than the ones online?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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My opinion is.. if a girl is sane and good looking.. she does not need to resort to online or speed dating events because she probably receives a lot of attention already without them, well a lot more than what she can handle.
 

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But 90% of the guys women meet are either dorks/douches and the other 10% are players. Believe it or not, women have a hard time meeting quality guys.
 

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mr. kennedy said:
But 90% of the guys women meet are either dorks/douches and the other 10% are players. Believe it or not, women have a hard time meeting quality guys.
Quality guys (i.e. players and alphas) don't hang at speed dating events, if anything they're at a foam party or club. Women know this

Speed dating = I'm looking for a "nice" husband to wife me up before it's too late
 

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Speed dating is a buffer for rejections of cold approaching. You have a 5 minute window, time's up, next. Speed dating restricts your ability to number close and escalate. If you have any sort of game, all other types of approaching trumps this. It's a waste of time and money, leave that for the chumps.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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casaanova said:
Quality guys (i.e. players and alphas)
:crackup: :crackup:

"Quality"? You're kidding, right?

Although you are kinda right about what happens at a speed dating event. It's mostly the 5's and below who take part. Maybe some 6's as they are quite desperate
 

mr. kennedy

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casaanova said:
Quality guys (i.e. players and alphas) don't hang at speed dating events, if anything they're at a foam party or club. Women know this

Speed dating = I'm looking for a "nice" husband to wife me up before it's too late
Quality guys definitely doesn't equal players. And not all alphas are quality.
 
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