"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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schttrj

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You guys should be familiar with me by now, anyways I am Ronny aka schttrj. well, straight to the point, I am financially very weak and not to speak of a owned apartment, I don't have a bike even. I live in a paying guest house or on a rental. bad condition. but I dress good and look good and smell good. But, I face teh problem because most of the girls here ask "what do you do?", "where do you live?" and so on....

How do you guys recommend me to go about it? golddiggers are not good bets for me I think, but I would like to become a DJ who can pull any chick.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Porky04

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hmm, try and remember its not you that they are attracted to. Its the feeling you supply when you are around them.

If you get a girls number, theres no need to tell her you live in a lacking accomodation. And if she is intrested in you, then a shack isnt going to really change a thing
 
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I.A.F.Y.B.

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I would advise you get your life together before you worry too much about getting women. Get a job, a place, and a car. However you do it just do it.

Or like everywomanshero said; "lie"
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Entropy4

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I lived on my friend's couch for six months and still pulled girls to it. It's really ****ing hard, but it's possible. No car, no room, no belongings -- just some clothes and my charm.

You should work on getting your life in order, you'll see your results improve immediately. Not because chicks like a guy with a nice place or with money, but because YOU will feel so much better about yourself. Simply removing the stress itself can transform your results overnight.

But if you want to sarge anyway, here are the things that helped me:
1. Frame your lack of job/house as a transition. Focus on your goals and ambitions, not what you have now.
2. Try to go back to HER place first.
3. Don't lie and don't EVER feel insecure about your lifestyle, even if you are. Hide it. A man who is ashamed of his lifestyle is the most unattractive thing you can be.

Hope this helps.
 
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