"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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schttrj

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You guys should be familiar with me by now, anyways I am Ronny aka schttrj. well, straight to the point, I am financially very weak and not to speak of a owned apartment, I don't have a bike even. I live in a paying guest house or on a rental. bad condition. but I dress good and look good and smell good. But, I face teh problem because most of the girls here ask "what do you do?", "where do you live?" and so on....

How do you guys recommend me to go about it? golddiggers are not good bets for me I think, but I would like to become a DJ who can pull any chick.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Porky04

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hmm, try and remember its not you that they are attracted to. Its the feeling you supply when you are around them.

If you get a girls number, theres no need to tell her you live in a lacking accomodation. And if she is intrested in you, then a shack isnt going to really change a thing
 
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I.A.F.Y.B.

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I would advise you get your life together before you worry too much about getting women. Get a job, a place, and a car. However you do it just do it.

Or like everywomanshero said; "lie"
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I lived on my friend's couch for six months and still pulled girls to it. It's really ****ing hard, but it's possible. No car, no room, no belongings -- just some clothes and my charm.

You should work on getting your life in order, you'll see your results improve immediately. Not because chicks like a guy with a nice place or with money, but because YOU will feel so much better about yourself. Simply removing the stress itself can transform your results overnight.

But if you want to sarge anyway, here are the things that helped me:
1. Frame your lack of job/house as a transition. Focus on your goals and ambitions, not what you have now.
2. Try to go back to HER place first.
3. Don't lie and don't EVER feel insecure about your lifestyle, even if you are. Hide it. A man who is ashamed of his lifestyle is the most unattractive thing you can be.

Hope this helps.
 
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