"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Speaking to an high 7, she text me heavy but....

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I'm talking to an high 7, she could be an high 8 but she has a child.

Anyways I got her number from seeing her at my job. This chicks calls me, text me heavy, thing is she always talking about how she doesn't like guys to get close to her.

She is showing high interest, but I can't figure out for the life of me what this chick agenda is
 

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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Sounds like she wants a beta orbiter. Ease off and go for someone with more interest.

Did you ever ask this girl out? Try it!
 
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Nah never did, cause she wants to play games, I have a hotter chick then her I bang on the daily, but I wouldn't mind this girl being a daily plate.
 
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Fatal Jay said:
I'm talking to an high 7, she could be an high 8 but she has a child.

Anyways I got her number from seeing her at my job. This chicks calls me, text me heavy, thing is she always talking about how she doesn't like guys to get close to her.

She is showing high interest, but I can't figure out for the life of me what this chick agenda is
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Doesnt matter what shes saying. Her actions are telling a different story if shes contacting you all the time. What you have to do is set up a date or a time/place to hang out. Proceed by what she is doing, not by what she is saying. If she says she cant, Say "Ok cool babe" and you go out with other girls. If she says yes, then you know what you have to do. Also she has a kid, Me personally i wouldnt bother with it but if thats your thing then go for it but i wouldnt advise to go that route.
 
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my oneitis always said, "I hate when guys get close, i dont do feelings well", to be honest I'm the same way. But that girl was Satan in short shorts, run away dude.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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