Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Speaking to an high 7, she text me heavy but....

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I'm talking to an high 7, she could be an high 8 but she has a child.

Anyways I got her number from seeing her at my job. This chicks calls me, text me heavy, thing is she always talking about how she doesn't like guys to get close to her.

She is showing high interest, but I can't figure out for the life of me what this chick agenda is
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Sounds like she wants a beta orbiter. Ease off and go for someone with more interest.

Did you ever ask this girl out? Try it!
 
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Nah never did, cause she wants to play games, I have a hotter chick then her I bang on the daily, but I wouldn't mind this girl being a daily plate.
 
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Fatal Jay said:
I'm talking to an high 7, she could be an high 8 but she has a child.

Anyways I got her number from seeing her at my job. This chicks calls me, text me heavy, thing is she always talking about how she doesn't like guys to get close to her.

She is showing high interest, but I can't figure out for the life of me what this chick agenda is
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Doesnt matter what shes saying. Her actions are telling a different story if shes contacting you all the time. What you have to do is set up a date or a time/place to hang out. Proceed by what she is doing, not by what she is saying. If she says she cant, Say "Ok cool babe" and you go out with other girls. If she says yes, then you know what you have to do. Also she has a kid, Me personally i wouldnt bother with it but if thats your thing then go for it but i wouldnt advise to go that route.
 
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my oneitis always said, "I hate when guys get close, i dont do feelings well", to be honest I'm the same way. But that girl was Satan in short shorts, run away dude.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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