"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Speaking to an high 7, she text me heavy but....

Fatal Jay

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I'm talking to an high 7, she could be an high 8 but she has a child.

Anyways I got her number from seeing her at my job. This chicks calls me, text me heavy, thing is she always talking about how she doesn't like guys to get close to her.

She is showing high interest, but I can't figure out for the life of me what this chick agenda is
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sounds like she wants a beta orbiter. Ease off and go for someone with more interest.

Did you ever ask this girl out? Try it!
 
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Nah never did, cause she wants to play games, I have a hotter chick then her I bang on the daily, but I wouldn't mind this girl being a daily plate.
 
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Fatal Jay said:
I'm talking to an high 7, she could be an high 8 but she has a child.

Anyways I got her number from seeing her at my job. This chicks calls me, text me heavy, thing is she always talking about how she doesn't like guys to get close to her.

She is showing high interest, but I can't figure out for the life of me what this chick agenda is
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Doesnt matter what shes saying. Her actions are telling a different story if shes contacting you all the time. What you have to do is set up a date or a time/place to hang out. Proceed by what she is doing, not by what she is saying. If she says she cant, Say "Ok cool babe" and you go out with other girls. If she says yes, then you know what you have to do. Also she has a kid, Me personally i wouldnt bother with it but if thats your thing then go for it but i wouldnt advise to go that route.
 
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my oneitis always said, "I hate when guys get close, i dont do feelings well", to be honest I'm the same way. But that girl was Satan in short shorts, run away dude.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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