"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Speaking to an high 7, she text me heavy but....

Fatal Jay

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I'm talking to an high 7, she could be an high 8 but she has a child.

Anyways I got her number from seeing her at my job. This chicks calls me, text me heavy, thing is she always talking about how she doesn't like guys to get close to her.

She is showing high interest, but I can't figure out for the life of me what this chick agenda is
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sounds like she wants a beta orbiter. Ease off and go for someone with more interest.

Did you ever ask this girl out? Try it!
 

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Nah never did, cause she wants to play games, I have a hotter chick then her I bang on the daily, but I wouldn't mind this girl being a daily plate.
 

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Fatal Jay said:
I'm talking to an high 7, she could be an high 8 but she has a child.

Anyways I got her number from seeing her at my job. This chicks calls me, text me heavy, thing is she always talking about how she doesn't like guys to get close to her.

She is showing high interest, but I can't figure out for the life of me what this chick agenda is
Doesnt matter what shes saying. Her actions are telling a different story if shes contacting you all the time. What you have to do is set up a date or a time/place to hang out. Proceed by what she is doing, not by what she is saying. If she says she cant, Say "Ok cool babe" and you go out with other girls. If she says yes, then you know what you have to do. Also she has a kid, Me personally i wouldnt bother with it but if thats your thing then go for it but i wouldnt advise to go that route.
 

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my oneitis always said, "I hate when guys get close, i dont do feelings well", to be honest I'm the same way. But that girl was Satan in short shorts, run away dude.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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