"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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That’s what’s awesome about this forum. We learn and share life experience with one another.
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Definitely, I know a lot about how to make a relationship go well for many years in terms of frame. I just don't necessarily know how to repair things when it went bad. I am enjoying all the life experiences despite some ups and downs and am glad to help where i can.
 
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Definitely, I know a lot about how to make a relationship go well for many years in terms of frame. I just don't necessarily know how to repair things when it went bad. I am enjoying all the life experiences despite some ups and downs and am glad to help where i can.
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It's nearly impossible to maintain frame for many years. If you can manage that, your game is tight.

Sometimes when things go bad, there's no fixing them. It depends on who holds the frame.

If she holds the frame, more effort on your part comes off as needy, which women find disgusting.

If you're on an even keel, casually let her know you want to be together, then withdraw attention
 
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