"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Chow Mein said:
That’s what’s awesome about this forum. We learn and share life experience with one another.
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Definitely, I know a lot about how to make a relationship go well for many years in terms of frame. I just don't necessarily know how to repair things when it went bad. I am enjoying all the life experiences despite some ups and downs and am glad to help where i can.
 
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Ricky said:
Definitely, I know a lot about how to make a relationship go well for many years in terms of frame. I just don't necessarily know how to repair things when it went bad. I am enjoying all the life experiences despite some ups and downs and am glad to help where i can.
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It's nearly impossible to maintain frame for many years. If you can manage that, your game is tight.

Sometimes when things go bad, there's no fixing them. It depends on who holds the frame.

If she holds the frame, more effort on your part comes off as needy, which women find disgusting.

If you're on an even keel, casually let her know you want to be together, then withdraw attention
 
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