"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Spaz

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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That’s what’s awesome about this forum. We learn and share life experience with one another.
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Definitely, I know a lot about how to make a relationship go well for many years in terms of frame. I just don't necessarily know how to repair things when it went bad. I am enjoying all the life experiences despite some ups and downs and am glad to help where i can.
 
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Ricky said:
Definitely, I know a lot about how to make a relationship go well for many years in terms of frame. I just don't necessarily know how to repair things when it went bad. I am enjoying all the life experiences despite some ups and downs and am glad to help where i can.
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It's nearly impossible to maintain frame for many years. If you can manage that, your game is tight.

Sometimes when things go bad, there's no fixing them. It depends on who holds the frame.

If she holds the frame, more effort on your part comes off as needy, which women find disgusting.

If you're on an even keel, casually let her know you want to be together, then withdraw attention
 
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