amnbyrd
Don Juan
Just had sex with this girl and I didnt use a condom and didnt pull out. Anyone have experiences like this? She said shes never had someone *** inside her before. Im mainly worried about her getting pregnant. Need input/info asap
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Spare Me the Lecture...
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
SickAgain
Senior Don Juan
Get ready to pay child support if she's a republican. The more time you spend with the kid, the less you have to pay. Good luck, Daddy.
MooseGod
Master Don Juan
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Sure, I've had experiences like that...but she was on the pill.
morning after pill... aka plan B is your best friend...
i suggest you do it for your peace of mind... its the worst when her cycle doesnt start on time, and then ur sweating it for a couple days... and if god likes u.. it starts... better not leave anything to chance.. also get yourself tested..
i suggest you do it for your peace of mind... its the worst when her cycle doesnt start on time, and then ur sweating it for a couple days... and if god likes u.. it starts... better not leave anything to chance.. also get yourself tested..
amnbyrd
Don Juan
where do you buy the morning after pills? How effective are they?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
amnbyrd
Don Juan
Bunk 040 said:
You say it as if the chance of her being pregnant isnt that great??
L777
Master Don Juan
Yea I'm in the exact same situation. I'm much more worried about STD's than a kid. She swore to me she was clean but I'm gonna get checked anyway....I suggest you do the same.
I'm gonna consider it a lesson, and never do it again, cos I'm pretty scared right now actually.
I'm gonna consider it a lesson, and never do it again, cos I'm pretty scared right now actually.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
L777
Master Don Juan
I don't believe ppl who talk like that really get laid.Bunk 040 said:
Alphamale1821
Senior Don Juan
As weird as it may seem some chumps do get laid with that lingo, but chances are they are hood or gangsta niggas. BTW i'm black but don't say shiit like SMASH. I'm pretty sure people quit saying that after like 7-8th grade around here in texas.L777 said:
My Name is Nobody
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I think Bunk gets laid. He gave me decent advice in my thread.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
-HPNOTIQ-
Master Don Juan
Go to Planned Parenthood with the chick and tell them your situation that want to get the morning after pill. I'm assuming you have a Planned Parenthood in your area. If not, go to a drug store and ask the Pharmacist. Don't slouch on this. The morning after pill is most effective when used right away.
Second, NEVER ever EVER EVER EVER trust a woman when she wants you to raw ride her and release inside. EVEN if she said she's on the pill. Unless you're dating this girl exclusively, its just a plain stupid move.
Second, NEVER ever EVER EVER EVER trust a woman when she wants you to raw ride her and release inside. EVEN if she said she's on the pill. Unless you're dating this girl exclusively, its just a plain stupid move.
amnbyrd
Don Juan
Today after work I'll most likely stop by Walgreens and check it out.
[S]alvatore
Master Don Juan
Aha, you're fu<ked now. Good luck m8 
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.