"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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spam link in sig = bot?

Bible_Belt

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Especially in H&F, I have noticed several somewhat incoherent posts by new users that have suspicious links in the signature, like "generic xanax" or something from a spam email. Are these users bots? Or is this some clever new vbulletin advertising scheme?

If they are bots, then bots are certainly getting better. It is going to be difficult to tell the legitimate new sosuave users from the spam bots.

If possible, we could remove the ability to place active links in one's signature. That would foil the fake user bot scheme. It would also keep us from having conversations with people who aren't really there, which happens a lot on here when people can't tell a bot from a person.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Just keep reporting suspicious posts and we'll get around to it. Thanks for helping out :up:
 
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