Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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spam link in sig = bot?

Bible_Belt

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Especially in H&F, I have noticed several somewhat incoherent posts by new users that have suspicious links in the signature, like "generic xanax" or something from a spam email. Are these users bots? Or is this some clever new vbulletin advertising scheme?

If they are bots, then bots are certainly getting better. It is going to be difficult to tell the legitimate new sosuave users from the spam bots.

If possible, we could remove the ability to place active links in one's signature. That would foil the fake user bot scheme. It would also keep us from having conversations with people who aren't really there, which happens a lot on here when people can't tell a bot from a person.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Just keep reporting suspicious posts and we'll get around to it. Thanks for helping out :up:
 
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