"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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spam link in sig = bot?

Bible_Belt

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Especially in H&F, I have noticed several somewhat incoherent posts by new users that have suspicious links in the signature, like "generic xanax" or something from a spam email. Are these users bots? Or is this some clever new vbulletin advertising scheme?

If they are bots, then bots are certainly getting better. It is going to be difficult to tell the legitimate new sosuave users from the spam bots.

If possible, we could remove the ability to place active links in one's signature. That would foil the fake user bot scheme. It would also keep us from having conversations with people who aren't really there, which happens a lot on here when people can't tell a bot from a person.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Just keep reporting suspicious posts and we'll get around to it. Thanks for helping out :up:
 
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