I think i figured out a big flaw in my "availability". Most girls i like or start to like i get their screen name, and talk to them here and there. Problem is, im ALWAYS on aim, almost everyday, because i cant get on weekdays with alot of **** to do. So i decided to stop using aim, that way tehse girls dont know what im doing all the time. I think this was a good step in my mind.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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