I think i figured out a big flaw in my "availability". Most girls i like or start to like i get their screen name, and talk to them here and there. Problem is, im ALWAYS on aim, almost everyday, because i cant get on weekdays with alot of **** to do. So i decided to stop using aim, that way tehse girls dont know what im doing all the time. I think this was a good step in my mind.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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