I think i figured out a big flaw in my "availability". Most girls i like or start to like i get their screen name, and talk to them here and there. Problem is, im ALWAYS on aim, almost everyday, because i cant get on weekdays with alot of **** to do. So i decided to stop using aim, that way tehse girls dont know what im doing all the time. I think this was a good step in my mind.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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