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BeDJ
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Lol, that's what I'm doing right now.Peaks&Valleys said:
I was thinking - if a chick is terrible at b|owjobs than she hasn't been through that many d!cks.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
I was thinking - if a chick is terrible at b|owjobs than she hasn't been through that many d!cks.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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BeDJ
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I went drinking with my uncle for the first time last night. He did not have a dime to his name and is currently looking for a job. He had a good job about 10 years ago, pulling 80K and quit. I always thought that he had given up on life after a break up with his 10 year LTR.
Yesterday, he told me that he was the one to call it off. The reason why he quit his job was because my grandmother had cancer and he wanted to take care of her full time. She passed away 5 years ago. He continued to take care of my grandfather who, at the moment could not talk. They paid my uncle $200 a month to "help" him. Now, they are not paying $1500 for the retirement home. My other aunts and uncles took this as an advantage to move my grandfather from the house he stayed in for 30 years to a retirement home. This led to my uncle who dedicated the past 10 years to take care of my grandfather til his last breath, homeless.
My other uncles and aunts try so fvcking hard to live that american dream that they lose site of all responsibilities. My grandma's last dying words to my uncle was - Don't trust your sister. My uncle told me that if he ever made it big again, he would pay off my mom's house and my sister's. At the end of the day, people are after their own agenda, even your own family.
I hope he gets another shot, he was using the public library's computer to send out resumes. I gave him my laptop when we parted ways.
Yesterday, he told me that he was the one to call it off. The reason why he quit his job was because my grandmother had cancer and he wanted to take care of her full time. She passed away 5 years ago. He continued to take care of my grandfather who, at the moment could not talk. They paid my uncle $200 a month to "help" him. Now, they are not paying $1500 for the retirement home. My other aunts and uncles took this as an advantage to move my grandfather from the house he stayed in for 30 years to a retirement home. This led to my uncle who dedicated the past 10 years to take care of my grandfather til his last breath, homeless.
My other uncles and aunts try so fvcking hard to live that american dream that they lose site of all responsibilities. My grandma's last dying words to my uncle was - Don't trust your sister. My uncle told me that if he ever made it big again, he would pay off my mom's house and my sister's. At the end of the day, people are after their own agenda, even your own family.
I hope he gets another shot, he was using the public library's computer to send out resumes. I gave him my laptop when we parted ways.
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
That took me on a feels trip.BeDJ said:
Seriously - I have a lot of respect for that mans humanity. I Wish him luck - If that does any good in the real world.
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Third week sober, longest I've been since entering college. I had a drinking problem and know it's going to be awhile until I can take another sip.
At the moment, life is good.
At the moment, life is good.
Peaks&Valleys
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Nice brotha.BeDJ said:
Do what you gotta do. One life to live, make it a good one.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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If a packet hits a pocket on a socket on a port,
And the bus is interrupted as a very last resort,
And the address of the memory makes your floppy disk abort,
Then the socket packet pocket has an error to report!
If your cursor finds a menu item followed by a dash,
And the double-clicking icon puts your window in the trash,
And your data is corrupted 'cause the index doesn't hash,
Then your situation's hopeless, and your system's gonna crash!
If the label on the cable on the table at your house,
Says the network is connected to the button on your mouse,
But your packets want to tunnel on another protocol,
That's repeatedly rejected by the printer down the hall,
And your screen is all distorted by the side effects of gauss
So your icons in the window are as wavy as a souse,
Then you may as well reboot and go out with a bang,
'Cause as sure as I'm a poet, the sucker's gonna hang!
When the copy of your floppy's getting sloppy on the disk,
And the microcode instructions cause unnecessary risc,
Then you have to flash your memory and you'll want to RAM your ROM.
Quickly turn off the computer and be sure to tell your mom!
(I can recite this one by heart in fifty seconds. Just because it's fun!)
And the bus is interrupted as a very last resort,
And the address of the memory makes your floppy disk abort,
Then the socket packet pocket has an error to report!
If your cursor finds a menu item followed by a dash,
And the double-clicking icon puts your window in the trash,
And your data is corrupted 'cause the index doesn't hash,
Then your situation's hopeless, and your system's gonna crash!
If the label on the cable on the table at your house,
Says the network is connected to the button on your mouse,
But your packets want to tunnel on another protocol,
That's repeatedly rejected by the printer down the hall,
And your screen is all distorted by the side effects of gauss
So your icons in the window are as wavy as a souse,
Then you may as well reboot and go out with a bang,
'Cause as sure as I'm a poet, the sucker's gonna hang!
When the copy of your floppy's getting sloppy on the disk,
And the microcode instructions cause unnecessary risc,
Then you have to flash your memory and you'll want to RAM your ROM.
Quickly turn off the computer and be sure to tell your mom!
(I can recite this one by heart in fifty seconds. Just because it's fun!)